Pull Them To The Side

So you have an issue with me or someone else? Why is it that you deem it necessary to make a scene or show off. If you really have issues with me or anyone else, why don't you do the courteous thing and Pull Them To The Side. In the words of TuPac, " A coward dies a thousand deaths, a soldier dies, but one. I believe that people who feel the need to always be seen before they are heard, are just that--- a coward.

I know to you, it's absolutely acceptable to be loud, rude or nasty to people that are all those things and more to you. But let me tell you a secret boo boo; the most hood rich thing you could do is yell, raise your voice or scream at people on the spot. If you really have a problem and it is worrying you that bad or p.o.'n you to the point that you can't control you anger, letting someone have it on the spot, won't help anyway. If you really want to find a solution, let s/he or them know you would like to speak with them, and Pull Them To The Side. Act like you have some manners and/or home training. Remember, the best way to live life is to treat others as you would like to be treated. If you want someone to Pull You To The Side, then you make sure you Pull Others To The Side As Well.

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Work - Ciara ft. Missy Elliott

Work Is What It's Called

There are a few things in this life that I do fear: GOD & my G-Ma. Everything and everyone else doesn't really phase me like that. But I can tell you one thing I don't fear at all, Work. Yeah, that activity that one partakes in that causes them to exert energy. Works Is What It's Called. All of us have to Work. The GOOD BOOK states, if a man don't Work he don't eat. Yes, that does include women too. We all have to Work.

I am unsure why people don't like to Work these days. They would rather sit back and live off government assistance or some other type of subsidy. Some people think, in their mind, someone is suppose to take care of them. Ma'am/Sir, I don't know who you are in your head, but you are more than capable of taking care of yourself, by yourself. I understand everyone needs help, but for anything you need/want in this life you have to Work for it. Yes, I know that sounds like a foreign term, but Work Is What It's Called. Get off your tush and get a j.o.b. If you want better for you and your family; Work your way to a better life and circumstance(s). Thats how you get change, by Working, that Is What It's Called.

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Ray: Snake Pond

The Caricatures in this video I don't condone. But that beat iz ILLY...
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I Got This

So I've learned lately that everybody is a critic. No matter where you go, someone has something to say about everything you do. They share their thoughts, opinions, non-facts and/or lies whether we ask them for it or not. But listen up buddy, if you don't have anything positive to say, don's say anything at all. Trust, I Got This.

Everything we do in this life we will be held accountable for. Rather it be very small or extremely gargantuan, all of us will have to answer for our acts, behaviors and actions over our lifetime. I do understand that we all need people to keep us on track, but some of you just take it to the max. Every move we make you feel it is your sworn duty to tell us how it should or should've been done. Look bruh, I Got This. If I am going to be held accountable for something, I want to do it the best way I see fit. Yes, I value the suggestions of others, but I am going to do it my way like Usher. I Got This. Let me do me and you concentrate on doing you.

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This Could Be You; Probably Is...

A Stress Free Me

I remember my G-Ma use to always say, "I ain't gon let y'all kill me." Oftentimes she was referring to her wonderful grands who love her so much that they would continuously give her a hard time with the simplest things, namely me. But on other occasions, she was referring to her boss, co-workers, church folk or things that she couldn't control. For instance, the light company, the phone company or the rent man. She use to always say that these things will kill you if you let them. And she is/was absolutely right. The things that go on in this life will kill you if you let them. One of those secret murderers is a thing called Stress. Stress will make you mind, body and soul collapse if you let it and take you out. But I decided a long time ago to live by this mantra: No matter where you see me, I will be Stress Free, because A Stress Free Me is all I know how to be.

I write to tell you that Stress isn't anything to play with. It will run up on you like a thief in the night. All of us need to be more aware of the things that Stress us and the things that help us release that Stress. The releasors should always out weigh the Stressors. Starting today, try to be more cognizant of those things that cause you to Stress or cause you Stress. If you can, let them go. If you can, try to better control them. I can promise you one thing, there will be A Stress Free Me, but there can be A Stress Free You Too, if you make it that way.

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Ask Yourself - Raheem DeVaughn

Ask Yourself ---Jeanie Marshall

Ask Yourself

Every now and again when I am trying to stay focused on my pursuit of happyness, I catch myself asking myself a few questions. Not because I am crazy or like to hear myself talk, but sometimes we all can get sidetracked. So, I designed a way to keep myself on the path that I feel is best suited for me. If you aren't sure where you are going, or if you have problems going in one direction consistently, perhaps you should Ask Yourself the same things I do. I will share my top ten inquiries that I Ask Myself in order to stay focused. Ask Yourself and see if they help you. They may or may not, but who knows unless you try.

Take a moment and Ask Yourself the following:

1) Who Am I?

2) What Do I Stand For?

3) Am I The Same Person Today As I Was Yesterday?

4) Am I Doing Unto Others As I Would Have Them Do Unto Me?

5) What Purpose Does S/He Play In My Life?

6) Did I Check Myself First, Before Making Something Or Someone Else The Problem?

7) Since I Know The Problem, What Is An Amicable Solution?

8) I Know At First I Didn't Succeed, But Did I Try & Try Again?

9) If I Failed, Was It By Choice Or By Force?

10) If GOD Is The Captain, Am I Sure That I Am Second In Command?

Ask Yourself the aforementioned things. Some of them may render a swift answer, but others may take a little longer to find an answer to. That is good inquisitive process to go through. These are just some of the many things I Ask Myself, when self-reflecting to make sure that nothing, no one or anything throws me off my path to meet my end goals. While I encourage you to Ask Yourself these things, I am most certain the answers may not provide you with an answer to all life's situations and circumstances. But if you can find where to start then you are one step closer to finishing. Don't be afraid to Ask Yourself about Yourself. Only you truly know the REAL answers.