Saturday, July 31, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 108 "Mirror, Mirror on the Wall"
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Hey Hey Hey:
Happy Saturday neighbors. It is Jesus o'clock and the kid is up.
Don't ask me why, but sleep is one of my least favorite things.
Don't worry I will get plenty when my time here is done.
Today's topic: Mirror, Mirror on the Wall
Do me a favor. I want you to find a mirror right now. I want you to go stand in front of that mirror and tell me what you see. Now, I know you might feel funny at first, but I want you to really stand there until you really are able to describe what you see. Then, I want you to think about how what you see makes you feel. This isn't very easy at all. Because I don't want you to project your image beyond what you actually see in your reflection, don't sit there and start daydreaming. Once you have focused on seeing the true you in the mirror, ask yourself, do you like what you see?
The mirror check is a major test of self-esteem and self-worth. First off, if you like what you see, and you wouldn't change one thing about yourself, then you may be ok. Unless you are mentally challenged and what you see in the mirror is a image of you when you were in high school and now 2-4 children later we all know you don't look a thing like the prom queen you use to be. But if you truly like what you see, good for you. You are done for today, have a good weekend.
Now, for those of you who don't like what you see, it is important that you figure out exactly what it is that you don't like. Is it your skin, your hair, your nose, your weight, what is it? Once you identify what you see as a problem, then you can develop a plan on how you may address what you see as something you want to change. Some things you can't change, they are GOD given and you should learn to embrace them. Those things you can change, use today as a planning day, to get you from where you are now to where you want to be. Then you should take Sunday as a day to not worry about anything and then Monday would be a good day to start the journey to a new you.
The mirror doesn't lie but your mind will. Personally, I think you need to learn to love yourself and learn to see you for what you actually see. You have to learn to look in the mirror and see what is actually there. Don't let other people be your mirror, that is why you have one on your wall or where ever it is in your home. Other people see what they want, but you can see what's actually there. Use your own mirror and if you can't actually look into your mirror because you really don't like what you see, perhaps you need to seek a little help. I don't think this blog is going to help you. If you should need some assistance, let me know and I will help you to the extent you allow me. I will do what I can.
~Peace, Love, and Nappynezz~
Friday, July 30, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 107 "Be Careful"
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Happy Friday My Peepz!
We have toiled thru 4 days of disappointed to get to today,
so lets celebrate Friday like its income tax check refund day!
Today's Topic: Be Careful
Ladies and Gentlemen: This is a public service announcement. You all need to be a little more careful. Be careful of what you do, be careful of what you say, and most importantly, be more careful of who you allow to watch you dang kids.
Be careful of what you do. You know there is this thing called karma. Simply defined it means whatever you do to others will be done unto you. Now I know you may say, "that's just a myth," but it is true. Let me tell you it is a fact. What you do will return on you. If you are nasty to other people, people will be nasty to you. If you lie, cheat, and steal, eventually, someone you know or love will lie, cheat, and steal from you. I am just trying to give you a few pointers. Just be a little more careful of what you do. You will one day, alone, be held accountable for all your actions.
Be care of what you say. The GOOD BOOK talks about the power of the tongue. The tongue is one muscle that can cause so much pleasure and so much pain. What you say can make or break someone. What you say can cause people to light up or cause them to become extremely dark & depressed. I know people seem to think that they can talk to you all crazy, but I am encouraging you not to go there with them. The saying goes, "sticks and stones can break my bones, but words will never hurt me." But lets be real, words do hurt. Saying the wrong thing can lead to life or death, a happy marriage or a divorce, a promotion or termination. I am not saying that you shouldn't take up for yourself, but just be a little more careful of what you say.
Last but definitely not least, BE CAREFUL WHO YOU LET YOU WATCH YOUR KIDS.
I am going to be real honest with you right now. Just because a man has an interest in you, that doesn't mean he has an interest in your kids or their welfare at the top of his agenda. If you know he isn't very attentive and seems annoyed with your precious little ones when you are around, what do you think he is going to do in your absence? Also, just because your brother or sister is not working currently, that doesn't qualify them to babysit your children. Kevin Hart said it best, "men are the worst babysitters in America, " and that is true. Most men prefer to play the PS3 or watch sports. To them, if your little one isn't loud enough to disturb his activities that means your child doesn't need special attention. It's the same thing with some women too. Most adults who don't have kids, didn't have them for a reason. So, as a result they may truly love your little ones, but that doesn't mean they should watch them. Worst case, some people are inappropriate with children. You never know who a pedophile is. They don't have a sign on their forehead that says, "I mess with little boys or little girls." I am not wishing ill will on your children, I am just saying, "BE CAREFUL WHO YOU LET WATCH YOUR KIDS!"
This public service announcement was brought to you by the mind of
he who seeks to make the world a better place.
Have a phenomenal weekend!
Holla.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 106 "When Did Being Smart Become The New HIV/AIDS?!"
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Wassup:
I am not wasting one second today. I am going in! If you don't like what I have to say today, feel free to click that little "X" located in the top right corner of your screen. And so it begins....
Today's topic: When Did Being Smart Become The New HIV/AIDS?!
I am so disappointed at this point. What is wrong with begin smart? I was reading an article recently where a reporter was talking to Mr. Bust It Baby himself, Plies. Now I should know better than to expect something remotely enlightening from a brother that names himself after a tool, which is actually called pliers, but somehow he came up with plies----ARRGGG, I digress. Anywho, the reporter was asking him about recent comments made by some people who went to school with him who said he couldn't be a goon because actually he is really smart and did well in school. Plies was livid. He vehemently denied the rumors that he was smart as a kid and as an adult----WTF? Man, I instantly became so hot. I could've caused third degree burns to anyone that touched me or was within a 100-mile radius. I just don't get it. When did being smart become the new HIV/AIDS?! You would've thought someone threatened his family, said he was bi-sexual, or was a caucasian man posing as this rap person he is. All they said was the brother was smart.
This is indicative of the problems that we have in the United States today. Everyone wants to be a thug or goon, but no one wants to go to college or shall I say, graduate from college. Because almost everyone goes, they just don't GRADUATE. On that note, let me address something, that I will write about later. For the record: THERE ARE NO THUGS/GOONS IN COLLEGE! Stop with your faking and flossing. There ain't one real Thug/Goon that I know, took time to study and do well on the SAT or the ACT. Thugs/Goons don't know what an isosceles triangle is, let alone term GPA. You fools are tripping! I'll come back to that later. Anyway, like I said this whole idea that being smart means your gay, soft, or less than a man is just dumb and explains why these young brothers are dropping out, going to jail and killing each other at such an alarming rate. If they exemplify any level of intelligence in school they get picked on, so they are forced to "dumb down" themselves just to fit in an avoid the negative stereotypes and classifications. When did being smart become the new HIV/AIDS?!
Maybe, I am overreacting. But we are losing our battle for the youth of today. Your daughter won't have anyone to marry in her race after awhile. Don't even bring up interracial relationships to me, because I will quickly say, love sees no color, just like you when you are shopping. You look for the best bargain and when it comes to your heart, you should find what works for you. (I'll come back to that too) I have to say I am most disturbed. People I need your help. GOD knows we don't have many men, especially black men at home or doing positive things that will help cultivate the minds of these young men. I saw a sign on yesterday, by the 100 Black Men, that stated, "jail stripes or pin stripes." What a powerful message. We are going to continue to lose this battle as long as we allow ignorant connotations like, being smart is not cool, to discourage our youth.
Once again, I ask, standing on the top of my desk, yelling at the top of my lungs:
"WHEN DID BEING SMART BECOME THE NEW HIV/AIDS?!!!!
That's just f'd up. SMGDH!!!!!
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 105 "The World Is Round, Isn't It?"
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Good Morgan! As always I hope all is well with you and yours and this blog finds you in the best of health and spirits.
Today's Topic: The World Is Round, Isn't It?
I know you must be thinking, why is that today's topic? Well, for starters I wanted you to take a moment to try to answer it. Its a legitimate question: Is the world round? Of course after a few moments of deliberation, the obvious answer is, "I don't know." I have come realize that the only way to seek answers to questions we are unsure about is to go find out for your self. Research and/or self exploration are wonderful ways to seek that which seems to not have a answer.
Is the world round? One wouldn't know if they are confined to the same neighborhood, block, burrough, parish, city, and/or state their entire life. If you never go anywhere, how will you find out what the world has to offer, let alone what shape it is? The question I posed today as a topic is very significant, because some of you all don't know much about the rest of your state, let alone the rest of the world. The only thing you know about the United States is what you were taught in some of your classes, if you decided to go to school on that day.
Unlike others, traditionally, international travel is foreign to our culture. People see going to the capital of their state or the place where the mall is as a vacations. Message: It's not! There is so much one could do with the time you are given on this earth. Traveling opens up the mind to so many fascinating things. There are tons of lakes, mountains, malls, and other wonders in this world to be explored. You need to take some time to visit some cities that you hear about but have no idea what they look like. Is The World Round? I don't know, but you can definitely take your next vacation and try to find out.
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 104 "Just Let Go..."
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What it do? Let today be your best day yet. Let's get it.
Today's Topic: Just Let Go...
Today is one of those easier said then done talks. I know some of you all struggle with this every second, minute, hour, and day. That is learning to let go. Letting go of things you can't fix, can't control, or those things that just don't won't to be kept. Lets go deeper.
There are a number of things in this life that you can't fix. Perhaps it was a previous relationship or marriage. Maybe it was a relationship with a friend that ended horribly, or other circumstances beyond your control, like your check at the end of the week not being enough to cover all your bills. All of us struggle with these things, but I will simply like to remind you of the Serenity Prayer. In lamens terms, change/fix the things you can, and accept those you can't and ask for the wisdom to know the difference. It is important to come to the realization that there are some things you just can't repair. You need to Just Let Go of these things. If its the past, it is the past. Be reminded of it, but don't let it become present again.
There are things that no matter what we say or do remain out of our control. We can't naturally change our skin color, eye color, and shape, without strenuous exercise, cosmetics and products of some type. But, one wouldn't be natural at that point. You can't control your boss's decision making on the scheduling or how slow people drive in the fast lane. Or even worse, why your favorite store has 55 registers and only six are open at the busiest time of day. Unfortunately, you just have to deal with these things. None of them present a choice between life and death, so it is of mass importance that you Just let Go. Stressing over these things will only lead to an untimely death.
Lastly, I have to address keeping things or people that want to be kept. How many times do you have to tell him/her what you want or need in this relationship? You have done everything but draw a picture. You have talked and talked. Forgave and Forgave. What more do you think you have to do? I think people are the hardest of all to let go. But you have no idea how much you may be doing yourself or that other person a favor. You owe it to yourself to be happy. If you aren't happy with the one you are with, then why be there? I know you are going to say, "it's complicated." There is nothing more complicated then becoming a infidel because you aren't getting what you deserve at home. If your body is there, but your heart isn't, it's time to Just Let Go. Later in life you will regret staying and the other people you missed because you were sticking around, always alone waiting on Hakim/Tiphanii to change. At some point you have to do them and you a favor, and move on.
Letting go is a challenge, but so is living. You wake up every morning not knowing what to expect. But, you get up and you make the best of your circumstances and situation. I am just trying to give you a few pointers that I think will make navigating this course of life a little easier. Some things need to be kept, keep them. But there are some things you just have to --- JUST LET GO! Knowing the difference is the key.
Kid Knowledge
Monday, July 26, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 103 "Every Little Thing You Do"
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Happy Monday My People:
I know you all dread Mondays, but hey we are alive and have to go to work whether we like it or not, so we might as well find some solace in it.
Today's topic: Every Little Thing You Do
You know I am learning that my words are very powerful. I am one of those people who only uses "kid gloves" with children. As it pertains to adults, I tell them exactly what's on my mind, or whatever it is that pops in my head. I usually don't think before I speak, but I embrace what comes out. I am a huge proponent that we should say what we mean and always mean what we say. Lately though, I have been having discussion around this topic of accountability. For those of you who may not have heard of this term, it simply means being held accountable or responsible for your actions. It is because of these discussions that I have come to realize that Every Little Thing You & I Do matters.
No matter how big or small it is, Every Little Thing You Do matters or impacts something or someone, both positively and negatively. It is very difficult sometimes to make decisions for some of us who are extremely compassionate, because we don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. Others don't care who gets caught in there verbal assault. But as adults we have to be more cognizant of our actions. On a macro level the interactions we have with family members, friends, and/or associates at work will ultimately affect something or someone. On a micro level the very way you treat yourself will define how others treat you. I am not pulling your leg, everything you do, and I do mean, every little thing you do counts.
I encourage you all today, to be a little more careful with the things you say and the things you do. The worst part about some of the things we do, is its always someone who is innocent that usually gets caught in the middle. They have no real part in our situations, but through associations or just by being in the wrong place at the wrong time, they get wounded. This is my advice to all of you. The next time you get ready to let someone have it, or you are fed up with your situation at home, work, or school, just be careful what you say or do. Someone, Somewhere is watching, and EVERY LITTLE THING YOU DO may be life or death, up or down, in or out for that person who views you as he or she that can do no wrong. Its probably your precious children, nieces/nephews, little cousins, siblings, or someone you have no idea that looks up to you. Just take a little time to process, woosah, and then act.
Have a great day!
~Me
Me
Sunday, July 25, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 102 "There's No Place Like Home"
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Happy SunDay My People:
I hope you all are doing the most this weekend. The kid went to see Salt on yesterday. It was better than I expected. I also paid a visit to the Apple Store. Man technology is so crazy! These cats are using their phones as cash register's and credit/debit card machines. If you are not ready to embrace the new generation of technology then you better get on the bus, because you are going to be left behind. I love apple, like we are married. LOL! Now, back to business.
Today's Topic: There's No Place Like Home
I know most of you remember Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz. On her journey she met a number of people, the cowardly lion, the tin man, and the scare crow. In the whole story, the purpose of her journey was to help others, but she realized in the midst of her triumphs and trials, that there was no place like home. She enjoyed her time in Oz, but her heart was in Kansas. To some extent, her body was in Oz, but her heart never left Kansas.
The story of Dorothy captures a message that even today, we all take for granted. There's no place like home. Some of you have moved away from your family, friends, and those who you grew up with. You have started a new life for yourself and most likely have outgrown those who you use to be extremely close with. That is all fine and dandy, but you can't ever forget where you come from. Those same people who drive you nuts or you try to avoid, helped shape you into the person you are today and you owe it to them to give back to their community or neighborhoods.
I find it weird that people move away and simply turn thier back on the ones who truly supported them in the first place. I don't care what Dad or Mom did to you, you only get one set of parents, you have to learn to forgive but not forget. Your brother or sister may have been wrong when you two had your falling out, but enough time has past, your nieces and nephews don't deserve not to have you in their life, because their parents were too stupid to say, "I'm sorry, or I was wrong." I know some of you have reasons why you don't regularly communicate with your parents, other family members, and friends, but are the valid. Sometimes is sucks like bees and babies, but you have to be the bigger person.
There is no do over in this life. Once people go over to the next life they are gone from this one---- forever. Don't let precious moments pass you by because you are letting yesterday rule today. There's no place like home. Home is where the heart is. Home is where the love is. Everyone is flawed, even you. If you are perfect, then you can stop reading right now, because there isn't a thing in this world you could learn from anyone, especially imperfect me. If you haven't seen your family members in weeks, years, or even longer, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. Yes, we all know you have made a new life for yourself, but if it wasn't for those in your old life you wouldn't be here.
Listen, we all go through it sometimes. All of us have family member who drive us up the wall. But, that is what makes us family. If you need a reference, go watch Soul Food again. This movie is a perfect example of the dysfunctional parts of a family. I am not saying you need to pack your bags, forgive everyone, and move back to your home town. All I am saying is you need to give reverence to where it all started---your grandmother's, guardian's, or parent's house. The place where the source of your talents came from.
Dorothy knew it. Even when she was faced with better opportunities in Oz then should could've every imagined back home. She constantly said it, "There's no place like home." She was right then and she still correct now. Pick up the phone or text/email someone you haven't spoken to in a minute in your family for whatever reason. See when the next reunion or gathering is and let them know you will have your face in the place. It may not make you feel better today, but you will be surprised how much other people will love to see you. True love starts with forgiveness. There's No Place Like Home, There's No Place Like Home, There's No Place Like Home!
Lata'
Saturday, July 24, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 101 "Be Good To Yourself"
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Good Morning All:
Thank you to all of you who wished us a happy 100th blog birthday on yesterday. We really appreciate your support. I know most of you are still asleep, working, or hung over right now so, I'm going to get right at it.
Today's Topic: Be Good To Yourself
To some extent I must say I feel sorry for women, especially African American women. I am no stranger to the whole dating game. Although, I don't participate in it, I evaluate the experiences of those who are close to me. As a man, especially a man of color, I get an opportunity to see what other men say and do as it pertains to women, dating, and relationships. Its sad how many SINGLE--- beautiful, intelligent, and loving woman are out here in this world. From conversations I have held with those that matter to me the most, it is very difficult to find a GOOD man. Now they say its not hard to find a man, a cutty buddy, or just someone to chill with, but when its time to get more serious, guys usually exit stage right.
I'm going to share with you all today what I usually tell them. "To be any good to anyone, relationship or not, you must first be good to yourself."
No one on this earth is going to treat you better than you treat yourself. Now, I am not saying get on this, "I'm so independent I don't need a man," stance because that is just ignorant to me. First off, you don't know what your future holds, so by making statements like that, you are putting negative vibes in the air. When you finally decide you want a man, all the ones who matter would've have passed you by, or are now avoiding you like the plague.
You must be good to yourself at all times. People can only treat you the way you allow them too. But, if you don't take care of yourself or lower your standards, you can't expect other people to raise what they offer you. Don't settle! Settling is like quitting. Make a commitment or a promise to yourself that no matter what it takes I am going to believe that it will all work out. Your destiny is already written. Just focus on putting yourself first, loving yourself more, and giving yourself the things you need. If you concentrate on being good to yourself, then you will understand why other people compliment you, and how only YOU and GOD can complete you.
Enjoy your weekend!
Inspiration-I-Try-2-B
Friday, July 23, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 100 "The Best Is Yet To Come"
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Itz Friday, Itz Friday (doing tha cabbage patch at my desk!) I want you all to join me in celebrating our 100th blog birthday. Now this may not seem important to you, but imagine having to single-handily talk to people on a daily basis in writing when ---YOU KNOW PEOPLE DON'T LIKE TO READ! LOL! Anywho, I do this for you people. Keep on supporting the grind!
Today's Topic: The Best Is Yet To Come
Brother Inspirational is back. Today is such a significant day for you and I, simply because its one more day we have to do something we didn't get accomplished on yesterday. I am excited to have the opportunity to speak with you all. I know I don't have the most followers, but you are my family and I honor and adore all of you. It is my goal to inspire, encourage, and motivate each of you as you deal with daily trials and tribulations.
I remember being told by my first coach that we can do more together than we can do as individuals. Its the old, "There is no I in team" concept. Oftentimes, I am not in the best of health and spirits mentally or physically, but I owe it to each of you to give you the best of me, until the jig is up. My mission is to support your goals and ambitions by verbally equipping you with tools that will help you maintenance your life. While most may not agree with everything or anything I say, just know that I have no ulterior motive. I do this simply for the followers of WoodWorkz, my family, & my hommies.
I wish you all the best in "O' 10," as I so eloquently call it. We are more than our successes, because our failures demonstrate we aren't there yet. I just want all of you to know that what you have done as of today is no where near what your will do in the future. The Best Is Yet To Come! If we believe in ourselves and unite together, we can change more than just our household, neighborhoods, or communities. We can change the world.
-Whatever dreams you have, don't give up, and don't give in---The Best Is Yet To Come!
-No matter what other people say or do to you, don't ever stop believing---The Best Is Yet To Come!
-When all else fails and people have talked about you like a dog and you feel like no one cares; don't fret---The Best Is Yet To Come!
-You can do anything in this world if you put your mind to it. Shoot for the sky, if you don't reach that, the clouds seem like a nice place to set up camp. Just don't quit because-----THE BEST IS YET TO COME!
PEACE, LOVE AND EBT CARDZ---GOTTA LOVE MY PEOPLE ($200 on steaks, lobster tails, shrimp and crab legs; lmao! ) Barack ain't changed nothing...ROFL!
Enjoy your weekend!
Thursday, July 22, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 99 "If You Happy & You Know It Clap Your Hands"
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TGIT people! For those of you who don't mentally move as fast as the rest of us, that means, thank GOD its Thursday. If you just had a now I get it moment, I am yet praying for you.
Today's Topic: If You Happy & You Know It Clap Your Hands
Ok, I know all of you remember that song. Luke "Uncle Luke" Campbell remixed it and had us all losing our mind when it came on. Those where the days. Today will be a short reminder to some of you who have obviously forgotten how to be happy. Ewwww, you Debbie and Don Downers get on my nerves. You are never satisfied with anything. Nothing is ever good enough. Eventually, people just deal with it and realize that you are the twin brother or sister of Scrug McDuck (yes a grow man can reference Duck Tails.) For you to be here and have so much, even though to you its never enough, you would think you would be at least content. It's so bad these days; you rarely get a smile out of people. I guess people just don't have anything to smile about any more. Well, I do!
In short, if you are happy, demonstrate it. If your love ones make you happy, show it. If your spouse, boy/girlfriend, makes you happy, prove it. If you don't know how, just simply clap your hands. Now people make look at you funny because everyone knows you can't just start off a clap all by yourself. But in this very moment, its a sign of appreciation. Take a moment, if you can, think of someone who truly makes you happy, stand up and give them a hand. Who cares who is watching. Most of the people around you think you are mentally looser than a dress shirt with all the buttons missing, so you will just assist them with judging you. I am serious. If you happy or can think of anyone, thing, or object that makes you happy---clap your hands.
Hey life is short and you will only get out of it, what you put into it. Happy Out/ Happy In. Now, get your butt up and start clapping. Don't make me come over there! CCCCCLLLLLAAAAAPPPPPPP! (I see you not clapping too!) CCCLLLAPPPPP!
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 98 "The Glass House"
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Sup All:
Sorry for the delay. Your boy got a real j.o.b., that keeps the lights on.
Today's Topic: The Glass House
Why are people so naturally judgmental? It baffles me how people make numerous mistakes, but low and behold when you make one---its the end of the world. Someone needs to take a moment to remind these people that they live in a hypocritical double-wide glass house and we can see exactly what they are doing. They act as if we can't see them for who they really are, "judgers." No one is perfect. As I usually state, "our imperfections are what make us unique." No one person is good at all things, but all of us are good at some things. If you aren't, keep living you will find your niche.
I have to talk about people who always want to share their opinion about what we do, but do want anyone to say a word about their life. Ma'am, Sir, we can see you. Your life is being portrayed right before our eyes like a blockbuster movie. You live in a glass house. No tint on the windows, no blinds or curtains. Just cheap, I know what's best for everyone else, but myself glass. I know some of you can relate. These people have something to say about everything and everybody. Always got the latest dirt or scoop on what everyone else got going on. How about you take a trip to Wally World and purchase you a life. I am not talking about the board game either.
The next time these people come up to you with this, "gurl let me tell you about Terry messing around on Conkeshia." Politely interrupt them and remind them that their lives could use a little improvement too. As a matter of fact you might want to take a minute to warn them. Cuz a cat like me would take a boulder, not a rock, and tear down the whole side of that glass house. Windex won't fix that.
Holla'
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 97 "There Is Nothing Between You & Your Future, But Space & Opportunity"
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Happy Happy Happy Tuesday Yall! I know most of you wouldn't be happy about Tuesday, but why not? It one day down from the week, three days to-go, not including today.
Today's Topic: There is nothing between you & your future,
but space and opportunity.
So I was having a conversation with a few of my associates just recently regarding goals. Frequently, I pose a question to people I know, regardless of there age. I ask them, "what do you want to be when you grow up?" At first it use to puzzle them, now they usually laugh. Sometimes I get a, "boy I'm grown," others think its cute and attempt to answer. Overall, this usually leads into a deeper conversation. A question like that makes you self-reflect and ask yourself whether or not you've reached that place you planned on by this point in your life. If you haven't, thats okay. You can still get there.
One would be surprised how many times people tell me that they wanted to do this, that or the other, but this, that and the other happened. Now I understand that there are some things in this life you can't control, but there are some things that you can avoid. I guess today's message is for those of you who won't let obstacles or life's dead-ends veer you off your path to where you want to be. Anyone of us can come up with a myriad of reasons why we didn't do this or didn't do that, but excuses will handicap you. No matter what your circumstances are, there is still a chance for you to be who you want to be in this life. Yeah, I know you didn't plan to have kids, be divorced, or have to work to take care of your whole family, but you have to do whatever it takes to sign your name into a page of history.
Take a moment. Look to the left, now look to the right, now look behind you, up, down, now look in front of you. Do you recognize what that is you see? It called space, which can lead to many opportunities. As long as you believe and step out on faith, you can make it in this life. There is nothing between you and your future, but space and opportunity. All of us, your family, friends, spouse, and associates are waiting on you to take the first step. We need you too. We want you too. Close the space between you and your future----Move, Do Something. Stop standing there. If you have life, you have time---today's the day. Don't let the gap between you and your future grow wider. Play it close like butter play toast. All you need is you. If you believe it, you can achieve it. Lets Get It!
Monday, July 19, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 96 "Love vs Hate"
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Happy Monday Folks:
I hope you all had a great weekend. This week will be your week. Well, only if you believe it to be.
Today's Topic: Love vs. Hate
I must admit off top that I am no good with the Love thing. I am working on my Phd, but it definitely ain't with a major in Love or even a minor. Personally, I think I suck in relationships, but I am great with relating to people.---Wait, is that a contradiction?--- The story of my life....Hmm... I have no idea, I told you I suck at that.
Anyway, I have to address this duel, Love vs. Hate:
In one corner you have Hate. Hate hails from many evil places in the world. Hate stands tall and is thick in its core. As far as victories, Hate is undefeated in destructive behaviors. Hasn't lost one fight when it came to destroying families, friendships, and causing conflict world -wide. Hate is a fierce fighter whose reach is amazing. Hate has a massive appeal to those who don't understand Love and all its complexities.
In the opposite corner you have Love. Love hails from earliest evidence of the Biblical days and Manhood. It was with love that the Heavens, Earth, and Man were created. Love is a powerful specimen and its easily the hardest hitting of them all. Love is undefeated in many parts of the world and continues to improve on its record as people find themselves ceremoniously joining together as one. Love is phenomenal in its ring generalship. Nothing moves with the swiftness, and such finesse as love. Watching love at work can mesmerize even the non-believers.
Both of these are major contenders who are equally prevalent in this match we call life. Who will win in your situation? Well it depends on who you allow to maneuver through or guide your actions. The difficult thing is that Love can turn to Hate so quickly, but it is so difficult to begin to Love again once you Hate. Hate is so strong, but Love is so powerful. This battle will go on for centuries. Who will be the victor? Well if you ask me, there is only one that will remain when the bell toils and the crowd jumps to its feet---Love. Love is the foundation of Life and it is with Love that we can truly conquer all. Hate can destroy you, but Love can rebuild you. Pick a corner and stay there. If you know like I know, choose the right one or one of them WILL CHOOSE YOU.
One'
Sunday, July 18, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 95 "There Is No Neutral In Life"
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The weekend is coming to an end. So make sure you get some rest today and chillax to the max. I been on the inspirational tip people so bare with me.
Today's Topic: There Is No Neutral In Life
Yesterday, we discussed how we never know what type of life circumstances we are going to get and while that remains true I feel the need to speak to you a little more in detail about life. Life is comprised of a number of things: up, downs, love, happiness, anger, joy, pain, pleasure, family, and the like. No matter how you were reared as a child, your life was set in motion as soon as you were conceived. Every since that day, you have been put on a path to your destiny.
The funny thing about life is, it is a constant journey to somewhere. You don't have a map, a gps, or a tour guide, just some various things you were taught as a child or during the course of your adult life that helps you deal with certain circumstances. Faith, family and friends are all a portion of your life, but they don't complete your life. If you haven't noticed, this life moves forward whether you like it or not. Life is always in drive and there is no neutral.
There are no breaks, pauses, or time-outs. You have to continue to breath, think, live, and function as long as you are still here. No matter what you are going through, you can't stop life from moving forward. Now, you have a chance to put it in park if you like, but I wouldn't recommend that, suicide is NEVER A GOOD OPTION. You have to take the reins of this thing called life and what it has to offer. Since you don't have control over the motion, you have to learn to control the pace at which you live. Think more, decide to be the change in this life you want to see, consciously to do things that matter, accept things you cannot change, change the things you can, and most importantly, love, laugh, and while you live. There are no red lights, brakes, or even moments of yielding, so make the best of this life. You only got one shot and there aren't any do overs either.---Lose Yourself!
One'
Saturday, July 17, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 94 "Life Is Like A Box Of Chocolates"
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Happy Saturday! I wish you all a great weekend and try to have fun no matter what it takes.
Today's Topic: Life Is Like A Box Of Chocolates
I was sitting in the living room last weekend with nothing to watch on t.v. I continuously flipped through channel after channel, but I couldn't find one thing that was worth watching. Needless to say, as you can probably tell by the title today, I ended up watch Forrest Gump. Now, I guess I hadn't seen this movie since it first came out or sometime around then. I forgot that while Forrest was mentally ----missing some pieces, as my little cousin would say, he had a number of great messages that he shared in the movie. One of my personal favorites, "life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get."
This makes perfect since and I am glad that Mr. Gump a.k.a. Tom Hanks took time to provide us with some great insight. Life is like a box of chocolates. We don't chose our parents, grand parents, siblings, cousins or anything like that. We inherit them if they are still alive when we come into this world. All of these components: the house we live in, the neighborhood we grew up in, or the church that we were dragged to as kids make us who we are today. These things define our life and our lifestyle.
There are so many things you can do with your life, and each second you are given here is another minute you have to make a difference. Life is truly like a box of chocolates, and even if we don't know which one we are going to get, we can do the best with the one we are given. There is a light at the end of tunnel, but you won't know if you don't get there.
Late'
Friday, July 16, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 93 "Put On A Happy Face"
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What it do peepz? I woke up this morning thinking about the many things that are going on around the world. As I began to get ready this morning I was again reminded that while I may not have everything I want, I do have the majority of the things I need. I am glad that I am here, and you should be to.
Today's Topic: Put On A Happy Face
I don't understand why people are so unhappy these days. I am so tired of seeing people frown, scowl, or walk around like their life is over or ending quickly. I just don't get it. Life is too short to be dealing with issues you can't change. I am telling you, all of you, no matter what your circumstances are, you have a reason to be happy or at least grateful. Put on a Happy Face People! It takes a ton of muscles to frown, but not many at all to smile.
Look around you. If you have the bare necessities in this life; that is enough to be appreciative of in itself. Stop expecting more and appreciate what you have. There are so many people who don't have, "a pot to p in or a window to throw it out of." If you have a bed to sleep in, something to eat, or air to breath, you are doing a lot better than some people. Everything could be better, somethings should be different, but they aren't. You have a choice in how you act or react to things around you. Even if you can't think of one reason to smile, put on a happy face, it might make others around you put on a happy face too.
Lata'
Thursday, July 15, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 92 "Be Kind"
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I hope this week hasn't beaten you down too bad. I'm going to pray for you all to have a blast this weekend, so all you got to do is make it through tomorrow. It's Friday, perhaps payday, or at least it begins the weekend for some of us. So lets end the week on a good note.
Today's Topic: Be Kind
I want to take a moment to tell you all that it is very important that you be kind to other people. The GOOD BOOK says, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." That doesn't mean only if people are kind to me I will be kind to them. It means that no matter what other people say or do, you are going to do good by them.
I believe in this world where there are so many things to be upset about, depressed about, or downright mad about, you have to find something to keep yourself motivated. Kindness doesn't cost a thing and it can make your day if you let it.
The next time someone says something bad to you, or comes through your line at work with an obvious attitude, "KILL EM' WITH SOME KINDNESS!" You will be surprised how many people don't readily recognize that they are being rude or are frowning for no reason. Get up from this computer as soon as you are done reading this and do some random act of kindness. See how it makes you feel. Call someone and say something nice, go out and do something nice, or just try to be a little kinder to the loved one's around you. Being kind is not that difficult and if you begin with kindness, on the most part, your life will be filled with it in return.
One Lub
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Shock Value: Entry 91 "Its Never To Late"
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'Sup Wood Workz:
Today's Topic: It's Never Too Late
I know you may be considering a career change or contemplating diving back into the dating scene, but you have those Debbie Downers who say things like, "you are past your prime; why don't you just accept things the way they are?" Correction, haterz, you are past your prime! Don't let these negative, unmotivated people bring you down. It's never too late to make that move.
There may be an instrument you want to learn to play, a second language you always wanted to speak, or a hobby that you would like to turn into a full-time gig. Go for it! Those around you may not understand you motives, but as long as you know what it is that you want to do and you are willing to put in the time necessary to accomplish it, it's never too late.
You may feel like your mission in life is to take a voyage to a small country and feed the hungry. Or there may be a special destination in mind that you want to visit. There is nothing holding you back. No matter what you do, family, friends, spouses, or those who think you care about what they think will have something to say, but who cares? It's your life and as long as you are being responsible and not hurting anyone, it's never too late to do anything.
I urge you all today to step out on this wonderful thing called FAITH. As long as the good LORD wakes you up daily and breathes life into you, you can do anything. No matter where you are in life, what age, or regardless of your circumstances. It may not be today, tomorrow or even next week, but no matter when it is----IT'S NEVER TOO LATE.
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