Shock Value: Entry 259 "Boys II Men 2"

For me to be a "Man," I am not a fan of "Men" at all. I personally believe guys are the dumbest species on earth. Actually, I should be more specific, not guys but "Boys." In this writing today, I want to help you all learn to differentiate between "Boys" and "Men." Every individual in this life will go through their own maturation phase. But some people never accept the role that comes with growing up, especially "Boys." Some "Boys" never embrace the path from "Boys II Men."

"Boys" believe conquering women is a way to become the most valuable player in life. "Boys" believe the more women they sleep with the more respect they will garner from other "Boys." "Boys" don't understand that a million women in your bed won't ever equal ONE good woman in your life that will accompany you as you work to reach your goals. "Boys" think that lying is the way to get out of anything. "Boys" just don't realize that one lie will just lead to several other lies. "Boys" play games with life and love. "Boys" walk around with a brick on their shoulder. "Boys" are mad at the world and feel they have to prove how hard they are to other people and to the world. "Boys" think the more ignorant you look, talk, seem, the more girls will like them and other "Boys" will respect them. The sad part about it is, "Boys" feel they are correct in all the aforementioned actions because girls are attracted to that nonsense and they make these "Boys" feel justified in the way they treat other girls and talk them. Some girls enable and support their "Boyish" ways. As long as you girls keep that up, "Boys" are going to keep doing what they have been doing because you love them, have babies from them, and fight over them, even though they are dogging your a$$ like the greyhound on buses. But as the saying goes, "Boys" will be "Boys." Hopefully one day, they will take the journey from "Boys II Men."

Alternatively, "Men" are everything "Boys" aren't. "Men" understand the value of a good woman. "Men" have had an opportunity to learn from their "Boyish" mistakes. "Men" seek substance in a woman, not just a fat butt and good looks in a girl. "Men" understand that while lying is an option, it is important to only lie in times of crisis. For instance, if it's a choice between life and death and a lie will save them, lie until it feels like the truth. Moreover, "Men" understand that the "Man" makes the clothes, the clothes don't make the "Man." "Men" don't walk around trying to prove their "Man"hood. They realize we live in a normal society not a jungle and we aren't cave"Men" any more. "Men" realize you don't have to prove yourself to anyone, but the "MAN" upstairs. "Men" unlike "Boys" are turned off by loud, always got something to say, half-naked, ghetto girls. As a matter of fact, "Men" don't keep this type of company around them. "Men" tend to be attracted to someone who is just as beautiful on the inside as they are on the outside. "Men" unlike "Boys" seek the real support of a woman, a girl's sex and affection just won't cut the mustard. "Men" have taken the journey from "Boys II Men."

What is sad is now that you have read the above, some of you may or may not realize that all this time you have been involved with, or are currently involved with "Boys." My personal feeling is that to some of you, nothing I said will make a difference. You like what you like and you can't help what you are attracted to. If you like yourself a "Boy" then by all means, keep on making it do what it do. My hopes though is that some of you will realize that the majority of your hurt, pain, and disappointment is a direct result because you have been involved with a "Boy." No matter how hard you try, you can't teach him how to be a "Man." Only when he is ready will he seek to find the path from "Boy II Man." It is not an easy trip to make, but indeed a necessity. Ladies, if you stop lowering your standards, then "Boys" will have to raise theirs. With your help we can get rid of Grown "Boys" one at a time. Only the strong will survive, but Ladies for the sake of your heart and your children's future, let the "Boys" play their playstation, party in the club, or stay in the streets all day/night long by themselves. You need to switch it up, stop settling, and let a good "Man" find you. A REAL "Man" that understands and has experienced the voyage from "Boys II Men." In 20eleven, you deserve to be happy! 3 days and counting.