Nyce Guys Finish Last

I am convinced that Nyce Guys Finish Last and no one can tell me different. Now, this may be one of those blogs that some of you will say, "your just talking about yourself and how people interact with you." That may be true, but as one of the last gentlemen alive, I can use my own experiences as evidence to make certain postulations (look it up). So, anywho, I truly believe Nyce Guys Finish Last. Not by choice, but because of some sick synergy between women and men. If you all know me, you know that I am notorious for my word usage and analogies. One of my most famous one liners was born in my law class in undergrad. We were having a discussion about dating in college and the relationships between women and men. The ladies were talking about how men were dogs and how hard it is to find a good man. The guys on the other hand, weren't really responded except for the few that had NO CHANCE with any female in the room or any female in human form for that matter. At the climax of this discussion, I raised my hand to add my two cents. When called upon I exclaimed, "Girls let good Guys like me do homework, and they let the thugs beat it up!" Everyone paused for a moment and then every women in the room go offended while most of the Guys, including the professor, began to clap, high five, and pound (look it up you square) each other. I ended that statement by saying, "in all seriousness though, simply put, Nyce Guys Finish Last.

Now, perhaps I was wrong for how I put my statement. But once again, based on my vast experiences with both male and females interactions, I can pretty much back it up. Now that doesn't mean all women are like that, just the ones that seem to have the most mouth about the state of black men in this country. Ladies, there is a Nyce Guy, sitting across from you at work, next to you on the bus, and/or walking down the aisle in front of you looking for a seat at church, but they are simply overlooked. Why is that the case? Well there maybe a number of reasons, perhaps he isn't so thirsty (slang) to have a girl, so he isn't chasing every tail that comes his way. Maybe, the brother just got out of a bad relationship, and decided that he is going to work on getting his life back on track. Or, he just might be working on his goals and aspirations and has decided that instead of looking for someone, he is going to wait on one to come his way. Either way, there are Nyce Guys all over the place. It's so funny how women constantly complain about men, but if you line up all the Guys they have dated, interacted with, slept with, married, divorced, or kicked it with, you will see a lot of similarities. As I heard recently, "If the people around you won't change, then change the people around you." Ladies perhaps you are attracting the wrong Guys because you are using the wrong bait.

This my people is not intended to offend. It's just words of advice for all of you. Nyce Guys stay encouraged, don't give up. If you look at it, maybe to others you Finish Last, but if it takes you a lifetime to not have to settle and find Mrs. Right, then you may have won the race no matter what position you Finished in. Ladies, it's 2011; if you are having the same experiences with guys, switch it up. Do something different, close your eyes and take a chance. Perhaps his most attractive features are his heart, honesty, loyalty, faithfulness, and wiliness to love and build a future with your undeserving a$$. We all could use someone like that. Too all my Nyce Guys, we gonna keep it pushing. If Last is where we end up, then obviously Last is the new First.

~Nice Guy (the prototype)