Sunday, January 23, 2011

Support Those Who Support You

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Happy Sunday Folks! Yep, we are on the cusp of another week, so lets take today to chillax and mentally get prepared for what tomorrow, and our future as a whole has in store for us. I am writing today about something that truly bothers me. I really haven't said much about it, but today I shall let it out. As a collective, we all need to generally be more Supportive. But, some people need to learn to Support Those Who Support You. Especially, if that person(s) is doing something positive with their life.

The Support I am referencing does NOT have to be financial. Most people don't have money, well until those rapid refund taxes get here, but you can Support people in a number of ways: socially, emotionally, and physically and it wouldn't cost a thing. The best Support is just being there for them when/if they should need you. Especially your loved ones and children. I have made a decision that I am going to basically adjust my interactions/cut-off from henceforth, those persons who don't Support me and any of my efforts to reach what I believe to be my DESTINY in this life. Far too many times I believe I have to ask people about things pertaining to me, that I believe they should do automatically, because we are suppose to be close. However, I have come to realize that people, not even the ones who say they love you, really Support You. It shocking to me, how many people I interact with, who go through minor/ major crises and only at that point they think to reach out to me. But, when I say, "you checked out WoodWorkz lately," they are like, "nah, not recently" or some just say they have been once or twice and others are bold enough to say they haven't been at all. It may not matter to them, but it matters to me a lot. It's like having Usher as a brother and never listing to his music or going to his concerts. But, I guess people will Support You when you got money---makes sense?! Nope! It still perplexes my how people can say they love you or they are suppose to be your people, but they don't Support Those Who Support them.

Well today people, Da' Intellektual has decided to cut the umbilical cord to those persons. I am pulling out the cell phone and deleting contacts as I type--Family & So Called Friends alike. No one is safe! Not even my internet folks. Hopefully, that is none of you. Well most likely its not, because if you are reading this, that means you kinda Support, well at least today. I am not encouraging any of you to follow in my footsteps, but I will say in 20eleven some of us need to downsize like major corporations. We have too many people in our lives or our circles that aren't doing anything to Support Us, Help Us Grow, or Make Us Better People in general. They hang around ONLY because of what we do for them or what we are capable of doing for them. Today, I write specifically to thank those persons, Ninjas, who don't Support me and I leave you with this. "Remember now, for some strange or just unknown reason you didn't feel the need or you don't have time to Support Those Who Support You. When we make it to the top, act like you still don't feel the need or have time, because we most certainly will!!!"

Have A Great Day,

It's A Wrap Ninjas--like Xmas presents!!! (copy-written; so don't us like you made it up)

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