Shock Value: Entry 40 "And We Still Together...For What?""

I think over the course of the next couple of days I am going to continue to ask questions that I want you all to help me answer. Can someone tell me why couples and married people stay together even though one or more of them are cheating? When in the world did infidelity become an acceptable behavior. It is so funny how married people always state that they want to leave, but they are staying for the sake of the kids. As if, it makes it better for them to see mom and dad under the same roof displaying zero forms of affection for each other.

What is the purpose of being with someone, just to say you have someone? Most of the people I know in relationships are generally faithful when there significant other is in the room. When that person leaves---the are just as available as an unoccupied parking spot or other single people around them. I am perplexed as to why married people or people who are in relationships see the need to hang out with single people. The behaviors and actions of the singles crowd can't be encouraging to people who already have someone. Plus, if you have found your King or Queen; why aren't you home in your castle celebrating what you two have built together?

I am not saying that people in relationships or marriages shouldn't have fun, hang out, or assemble themselves with single people; but I am saying this possess a challenge for your friends when a guy or female tries to holla and you and you don't indicate to them you are married or have a man/woman. Now that puts us in a precarious situation. Worse than that, is when you lie and say you are with us, to your significant other or spouse, and you forget to tell us. So when your significant other asks us, we are put in a situation to have to lie for your trifling butt. Then if you get caught, now everybody think we are hoes together. Negative!

Just take this as a fair warning. One person's trash is another person's treasure. If you don't love the one you are with; let them be free to go and you go find someone to love or that you want to build a future with. Stop blaming it on the kids, finances, or the fact that your other partner is married too. What's going to happen is you are going to make plans to leave your Prince or Princess for them and they are going to decide to stay where they are at. Then you, dummy, will be singing that lovely song, "All By My Self..."

Word to the Wise